No matter how many years go by all these tips below (Carly Marie Project Heal) are so true. If one person did just one of these things it makes all the difference in the world. This will be our 4th holiday season without Lila. Her sister Eve is so excited about Christmas that it is hard to not imagine what Lila would be like at this time. The holidays are especially trying for us because when they are over we know that we then go into Lila's birthday month which brings along its own challenges and reminders. This year is also the year we were supposed to be pregnant with baby #3 and welcoming that baby in early February but we suffered a miscarriage and that dream was taken away in July.

As much as I am looking forward to Christmas because E is loving it and her joy is contagious, sometimes hearing that someone remembers our Lila is one of the greatest gifts of all.