I didn't want to put an obituary for Lila in the newspaper at first. I didn't want her to only be associated with death. If you google someone's name who has recently died usually the first thing that pops up is their obituary. I want Lila to be remembered as more than just her death, I wanted so much more for her. After thinking about this for awhile, Mike felt that by putting her website in the obituary that it might help to get her story out there and maybe it could reach people who we would not have been able to reach. We discussed this for a long time before deciding to write it and write it in a way that was not like your typical obituary. This is what we came up with for our baby girl. Our baby girl who we would have done anything to have with us for the rest of our lives. -Jenny